Ask yourself, "What do I want?"
Often we are not clear within ourselves what it is we want.  Or, we are so used to settling or doing what others around us have modeled, that we haven't known what it is we want for ourselves.  Set goals, even if you don't know, yet, how you will achieve them.   This can sets in motion your conscious and unconscious mind, to help you move towards achieving those goals in ways you may not have imagined.

Ask yourself, "What do I really, really want? If God, the universe, and everyone around me would cooperate, what do I really want?"
Stretch when identifying your goals.  If you think big, you are much more likely to achieve big changes.  You can modify them later, if you choose.

Write those goals down.  And then ask yourself, "What else do I want?"
When something is in writing it has more authority, it seems more real.  Make sure the list is comprehensive.  Post the list where you will see it, for reinforcement and inspiration.  Also, identify time frames, and then consider moving those time frames up. 

Welcome opportunities!  And "Just do it!"
Consider every day as an opportunity to take a step towards your goals, to act, to move!